Soak the Seeds: Take 2 teaspoons of Aliv seeds and soak them in enough water for at least 1 to 2 hours. They will swell up and become jelly-like.
Roast Dry Fruits: Heat ½ tsp of ghee in a pan. Lightly roast the chopped almonds, cashews, and pistachios until golden.
Prepare the Milk Base: Pour 500 ml of milk into the pan with the roasted nuts. Bring it to a boil.
Add Flavour: Add a pinch of nutmeg and crushed cardamom to the boiling milk. Let it boil for 2-3 minutes so the flavours absorb. Turn off the heat and set the milk aside to cool down completely.
Cook Aliv and Jaggery: In a separate pan (kadhai), add the soaked Aliv seeds and the grated jaggery. Add a tiny splash of water.
Simmer: Cook this mixture on medium heat for 5-7 minutes. The jaggery will melt, and the mixture will thicken. Turn off the flame.
Cool Down: This is the most important step for this Aliv Kheer recipe. Allow the Aliv-jaggery mixture to cool down completely.
Mix and Serve: Once both the milk and the Aliv mixture are at room temperature, take a serving bowl. Add about 2 spoons of the thick Aliv mixture and pour the milk over it. Stir well and enjoy!